The Rise of the Weekend Facilitator
You can memorize scripts. You can buy templates. You can brand yourself as a mentor, teacher, guide…
But energy doesn’t lie. Nervous systems tell all. The body, yours and your clients or students, always knows when something is missing.
And what’s missing is usually this:
Time. Mentorship. Embodiment. Lived experience.
Not performance, polish or hustle.
What’s missing is the depth that only comes from walking the path again and again and again, until it rewires you.
The Responsibility of the Teacher
Leadership in Spiritual Work Isn’t About Being Seen
…It’s about how deeply you’re willing to see yourself.
The ability to sit with your own shadows.
The courage to confront your patterns.
The willingness to dismantle your projections and take radical responsibility for your impact.
Because if you haven’t done that work…
You will inevitably leak harm even with the best of intentions.
Unintegrated teachers don’t just stall healing, they distort it.
They unconsciously center themselves. Or create co-dependence with their students.
Or model nervous system dysregulation as leadership.
This perpetuates a shallow, performative spirituality that looks/sounds good… but leaves people starving.